Failure is the best gift you can be given.
Of course, when you’re in it, it feels like hell. Every day, every moment, feels like a struggle and it seems like it won’t ever get better.
I can guarantee if you don’t learn from your failures, you’ll keep repeating the same ones, so take this gift of failure to learn the right lessons so you can move on.
When you’re at rock bottom, you have a chance to build your foundation even stronger. Failure is like a building that collapses because of a weak foundation: Fixing the foundation will give you the ability to build a bigger building.
If you don’t fix your foundation, you will always find yourself with a collapsed building.
So how do you fix your foundation?
Well, what caused the failure? Did you not work hard enough? Were you not honest? Were you blindsided?
You have to be completely honest in your evaluation of your failure. Even if you were completely blindsided, there were signs that it was going to happen whether you want to admit it or not. Honestly is the only way here.
Then, most importantly, how can you not make the same mistake in the future?
I’ve had countless failures in my life and many of them I repeated a few dozen times until I learned what I was doing wrong. It took being brutally honest and being vulnerable and sharing all kinds of doubts to get to the bottom of my repeated failure.
Be honest, learn from your failure, get stronger. It will hurt like hell, but you’ll thank me later.